Time for Change


July 2000

There was a protest at the State House the other day.  Men, women and children were fighting together against gay rights.  The most frightening sight I saw that day was a little boy hanging two Ken Barbie dolls in a makeshift noose, portraying the dolls death as a punishment for their homosexuality. 

Three men were dressed up in Ku Klux Klan outfits and the gay flag was torn down from flying alongside the American flag.  Angie and I have been talking about options for when we decide is the right time to expand our family, but what kind of world am I bringing a child into?  What kind of country that has faced so much historical discrimination and hardships let history repeat itself again and again. 

The part that I don’t think that everyone understands is just because it is not a racial issue does not depreciate the importance.  We let others target one group and they fight and hopefully but always overcome the obstacles and then it’s on to the next.  I feel like it’s a firing line and we, minorities or individuals that differ slightly from the norm are lined up awaiting our fates.

Sometimes I feel like we are fighting a hopeless battle.  After the gays prove they are worthy to the general public should we target the redheads because they are a minority and different from the rest?  The concept that because I choose to have a relationship with the same sex and others don’t agree with that causes bullying which leads to deaths across this country is outrageous.  How much unnecessary pain is caused by hatred?  How many people are out there deathly afraid to be themselves because it actually might mean death for them?

I will never understand.  I challenge you to open your ears and your mind to the differences that make this country wonderful.  We are not all cookie-cutter citizens and what fun would that be anyways?

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